Free Online Gathering
The Tides of Grief & Love
A Return to Keening
A soulful online gathering to sit with wise elders and enter the heart of the keening tradition
Saturday, 5th September
10:30am PDT / 1:30pm EDT / 6:30pm BST
75 minutes
As the breath flows in and out, so too does grief rise and fall like the tides.
In learning to move with its rhythms, we begin to dive beneath the surface —
into the deeper heart, where sorrow and love intertwine.
Phyllida Anam-Áire
Mary McLaughlin
Madge Bray
Hanna Leigh
Hostess
Lana Lanaia
Hostess
What is Keening?
As ancestral trauma surfaces and the need for communal grief grows louder, we are being called to remember. Keening is an ancient, embodied practice of mourning — a way to give voice to what aches, to what loves, and to what longs for release.
Come sit with us in this tender space, where sorrow and love are gently spun into gold. We gather to breathe, to speak of life and death, and to listen for the sounds that rise from the heart of our longing.
We’ll be guided by three beloved elders from Scotland & Ireland, who each carry the living memory of this tradition and invite us into its sacred rhythms.
This gathering offers a glimpse into the rich traditions of keening, serving as an introduction for our upcoming course, “Keening: A Living Tradition,” which starts on October 1st, 2026.
What's Included
- 75-minute live class with 3 beloved elders from the upcoming 8-week course, "Keening: A Living Tradition"
- Recording emailed to you within 24 hours
- Entry in our GIVEAWAY ($345 VALUE!) — Attend live for a chance to win free registration in "Keening: A Living Tradition," our 8-week course starting October 1st
Our Guest Guides
Phyllida Anam-Áire
Phyllida Anam-Áire is an 83 year old Irish grandmother. She comes from an ancestral line of deep trauma. After boarding school in the 60s, Phyllida trained in Montessori, and then entered a convent. Her study in Theology and doctrine taught her a lot; not about God, but about dysfunctional patriarchal indoctrination.
Having finished her studies in humanistic psychology, Phyllida trained and worked for ten years with Elisabeth Kübler -Ross MD. After ten years working with Celtic Consciousness in Germany, she moved to Edinburgh to be with her son and grandchildren. Phyllida still shares her “Teachings from the Cauldron”, which is a combination of humanistic psychology and Spiritual wisdom.
Mary McLaughlin
Dr. Mary McLaughlin is internationally known for her knowledge of the ancestral Keening practice in Ireland. An acclaimed singer who has released five albums (one on Sony Music) and has had over a million hits on Spotify, she combines her artistry with an academic approach to the Keen, grounding it in its history and context.
She has released four solo albums and two teaching books, sang the theme song for the PBS special about the Titanic, ‘Lost Liners’, contributed to 13 compilation albums on major labels and had two albums, ‘A Gaelic Christmas’ and “Sacred Days, Mythic Ways’ nominated for the international JPF Indie awards.
Her biggest recording successes were as the singer leading off the hugely popular Narada / EMI hit ‘Celtic Voices’ (1995) where she sang three songs including ‘Sealwoman’ which she composed over a traditional Scottish chant, and ‘Celtic Requiem’ (Windham Hill / Sony – 1998) on which she collaborated with William Coulter. The songs on ‘Celtic Voices’ had originally been recorded for the ‘Daughter of Lir’ album (1991/93/98), by the internationally acclaimed Jon Jacobs, famous for his work with Paul McCartney, the Divine Comedy and many others.
Mary is currently planning her next recording adventure which will probably be attached to the book she is now writing on the Keen and the World of Faerie.
Madge Bray
Born into a Scottish Highland family of village musicians, poets and storytellers, Madge Bray worked internationally in the field of childhood trauma, pioneering approaches to trauma resolution. Exploration of the sounds of dissonance in human suffering led her to Georgian polyphony and ultimately to cultural retrieval of music as a container for grief within her own Scots Tradition – and the unfolding of a deeper journey into lamentation and keening.
Our Hostesses
FOUNDERESS, WEAVING REMEMBRANCE
Hanna Leigh
Hanna Leigh is a Singer-Songwriter, Voice Doula, Weaver, and Devotee of this precious, living Earth. She was raised in California (Chumash territory) though in recent years has spent extensive time residing on ancestral lands in the Celtic isles. Her people migrated to the U.S. several generations ago from England, Scotland, Norway, Germany and the Netherlands.
This organization, Weaving Remembrance, was birthed through her own passion to reclaim ancestral wisdom and grow in intimate reciprocity with this miraculous earth that sustains us.
COURSE CO-CREATOR
Lana Lanaia
Welcome, I’m Lana Lanaia. I live in the Scottish Highlands, and my lineage is woven through many lands.
I am musician, and facilitator of retreats, ritual & healing spaces. I have been studying and working with earth wisdom traditions and sound healing for over 25 years.
I have a deep love for these holy Isles of Albion, her ancient places & wisdom. I have spent many years journeying to sacred sites, living in wild places, questing and communing with the land, sea & sky.
I am passionate about re-awakening the ancient, living wisdom within our hearts and lands; weaving remembrance that we are all children of the Earth.
Frequently Asked Questions
This offering is happening online through Zoom, with teachers joining us from different countires.
By registering, you will automatically receive lifetime access to the recording of this live workshop.
The giveaway winner will be chosen at the end of of gathering, around 11:30am PDT / 7:30pm BST.